“Like the marathon, life can sometimes be difficult, challenging and present obstacles, however if you believe in your dreams and never ever give up, things will turn out for the best.” -Meb Keflezighi
Thursday, March 26, 2015
Moving
Hope to see y'all over there soon!
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
Year of Dates - March
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| Hubby and I in class |
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| First course - Beer cheese fondue |
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| Second course - Hunter's Stew |
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| Main course - Beer braised beef brisket |
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| Dessert - Chocolate Stout Cake |
Friday, March 6, 2015
Lemon water challenge
What are the benefits of lemon water? According to this website, the benefits include:
- Increases hydration
- Boosts immune system
- Improves skin
- Helps with cleansing and detoxing
- Stimulates digestion
So, first thing every morning for the next 3 weeks, I'll be drinking a large glass of water with half of a freshly-squeezed lemon.
Thursday, March 5, 2015
Year of Dates - February
Wine and chocolate fondue at home on Valentine's weekend!
Unfortunately, we forgot to snap a photo of our date. This pic was taken the first time we did a chocolate fondue at home a year ago. This year, we had some tasty wine, a good stout, and pretzels and strawberries to go with our chocolate. We snuggled on the couch and had a *surprisingly* quiet and child-free evening to ourselves! Only to be woken up at midnight by Baby Thunder... C'est la vie!
Monday, March 2, 2015
Where is spring?
Yup, my coldest run to date - a 10k in 56 min in 13 degrees. And that was the temperature after the run! It was so cold that the water in my Camelbak tube froze! I was so happy to get this run in though, since I spent all of it with a new running friend of mine! There is no way I would have run that far in that weather on my own. Praise God for best running buddies!
Yes, my sweet Baby Thunder ended up with his own nebulizer mask. In January, he ended up with bronchiolitis, which resulted in multiple visits to the pediatrician and one late night visit to KidMed. After a week of breathing treatments every 4 hours around the clock, he finally kicked the nasty cold and has not had another one since! Little Man and I had a touch of a stomach virus, I had strep at Thanksgiving, Hubby had the flu on our wedding anniversary, and pink eye has gone through our family three times.
But, that's not to say we haven't had some fun this winter...
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| Happy Baby Thunder! |
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| Date night with Hubby at La Parisienne before watching No BS! Brass Band play at the Richmond Symphony |
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| Sweet snuggles with Little Man |
Sunday, March 1, 2015
A Positive End
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| Saying goodbye to February with a 5k in 28min on the treadmill |
Friday, February 27, 2015
Something fishy...
"It's so hard to find good, healthy, from-scratch recipes. I can look on Pintrest for 20 minutes and not find a single recipe that I would want to eat."
My sweet Hubby then recommended that I just publish my own recipes.
And so, without further ado, I give you...
Lemon Rosemary Salmon
1 sprig fresh rosemary
Juice from 1 lemon
3 cloves garlic, sliced
1/4 cup Olive oil
Salt and pepper
3 servings of salmon, 3-6oz each
Mince rosemary and garlic cloves. Combine with olive oil, lemon juice, salt, and pepper. Pour over top of salmon and let rest for 5-10 minutes, flipping salmon once so both sides become seasoned.
Heat some olive oil in a nonstick pan over medium heat. When the pan is hot, add the salmon. Pour the remaining marinade on top of the salmon. Cook approximately 5 minutes, then flip and cook another 3 minutes. Occasionally spoon some of the juices/marinade on top of the salmon.
Serve over pearled barley and steamed broccoli for a complete "clean eating" meal.
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| A glass of wine or dark beer would not hurt either... |
Monday, February 23, 2015
Getting there
And then, it hit again. One Saturday, I stopped functioning. The brain fog came back, I could barely find the energy to move, and all I wanted to do was sleep. Around 2pm, I finally started feeling better. But it made me realize that there is no magic or instant fix. There will be good days, and there will still be bad days. On the good days, I will enjoy spending time with my two boys. On the bad days, I will not feel guilty for sleeping or asking for help.
If I could offer one piece of advice to new moms, it's this: Monitor yourself, and don't be afraid to ask for help. Yes, exhaustion is a part of being a new mom. But it should get better. You may feel unhappy or just not yourself, but it should get better. If it doesn't, please don't be afraid to ask for help or talk with your doctor. When you start losing more and more enjoyment in life or feel like you are just trying to survive the next 12 hours before you can sleep again to escape, something has to give. This life is too short, too unpredictable to just survive each day.
Live your life. Cherish each moment. Recognize that you aren't made to do it all on your own. Ask for help.
Monday, February 2, 2015
Coming Out
I feel like there have been times in my life where I've danced around the edges of depression. It runs heavily in my family history, so it's not all that surprising. But, I've always managed. I talk it out, I run, I manage. I might feel glum for a day or two, but I always snap back.
Not anymore.
Overwhelm.
Overwhelmed.
Overwhelming.
In the last 3 weeks, I have experienced this word to it's fullest extent. My house is not clean. I cannot focus on my school work. I want to run away and curl up in a tight ball to go to sleep all at the same time. Bath time for just one kid or even thinking about what's for dinner requires a huge effort on my part. My brain feels like it has taken a vacation for the last few days, to the point that the words coming out of my mouth do not even make sense. And I'm convinced you can't truly appreciate exhaustion until you are a mother.
I've tried counseling, I've been running 2-3 days per week, I (occasionally) do yoga/meditation/deep breathing exercises, I pray, I talk with Hubby, and I socialize with friends. I might get a "break" in the day by hanging out with fellow mommies, but the blues return full force once I pack up the kids in the car. Instead of getting better, I'm getting worse.
It's not like there aren't enough stressors in my life right now. I'm in the last 4 weeks of my last nursing class (to earn my BSN), Hubby has been gone Monday through Friday, family stresses, my insomnia is getting worse, and Baby Thunder has been waking up twice a night.
So today, I have resorted to the last weapon I can think of to combat this Deep Depression - medication. I pray it will be enough to get me through this transition and back on the upswing of things. I'm ready to feel happy. To truly smile. To stop just surviving each day and actually start enjoying spending this time I have with my little ones.
Thursday, January 1, 2015
A year in review
February - I quit my night-shift hospital nursing job to work part time in a Coumadin Clinic at a doctor's office. It was a wonderful opportunity, and I looked forward to going to work every Tuesday and Wednesday.
July - We left our apartment and upgraded to a house rental! I was 8 month pregnant, but praise the Lord for extra space! We also joined the church we had been attending for a year.
Early August - We weren't quite settled into new home when Hubby found out about a new job opportunity that would have us moving to Ohio. He told me about it on a Monday, and after talking about it together and with a few other people, he put the application in that night.
End of August - after 4 weeks of waiting, Hubby was offered a new job! Throughout the entire process, God made His will known to us beyond a shadow of a doubt. But I've already written about that. So, Hubby was offered this job on Monday, August 25, 2014. Baby Thunder was born on Friday, August 29, 2014, and we became a family of four!
September - I celebrated being alive for a quarter of a century!
October - We (painfully) start getting used to Hubby's new job...
November - I ran a half marathon 11 weeks postpartum, decided to accept God's will for me to not return to work but to become a Stay At Home Mom, and celebrated my last known Thanksgiving in Virginia by running the Richmond Turkey Trot.
December - We have finally (mostly) adjusted to Hubby's travel schedule - and by mostly adjusted I mean that Little Man is no longer throwing tantrums every four hours and I am not bursting into tears every time Hubby walks in the door. Baby Thunder has finally started falling asleep for the night between 9 and 10pm and consistently taking 2 naps during the day. We also experienced the normal holiday chaos. I swear the holidays get more stressful the older I get! Hubby came down with the flu the day before our wedding anniversary, but was fully recovered by Christmas. The boys and I remained healthy, and we got to go to the Christmas Eve service at church, celebrate my dad's birthday at my favorite pizza place (if ever in RVA, look up Stuzzi's!), have our own Christmas morning, my siblings' Gift Exchange at our place the day after Christmas, and see my husband's extended family in Maryland the day after Christmas! Yes, the holidays are definitely getting more crazy... But, on the bright side, Hubby has had the last 2 weeks off of work! :)
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| Merry Christmas! |
Phew! What a year. But, 2015 is shaping up to be just as exciting...
Anticipate relocating: Yes, we will be moving to Columbus, Ohio this year. The tentative month is July, since that is when our lease is up in our current house. I'm trying really hard not to start planning (aka stressing!) about the logistics of what all that involves and just enjoy my last 6 to 7 months in my beloved Richmond.
Race schedule: So far, I have registered for the Ukrop's Monument 10k!
Yes, around here, #It'sMonumental! My goal for 2015 is to finish under 50 minutes. Which is gonna mean a lot of stroller runs with the boys... I'm also considering the Historic Half Marathon in Fredericksburg. One last big race before The Big Move. Lastly, I want to train for the Richmond Marathon in November in hopes of qualifying for Boston. That kind of training while I'm in a new state will hopefully help the relocation stress (for me and the boys) and maybe help me connect with a few local runners.
Yup, 2015 is gonna be big! Here's to New Adventures!
Tuesday, December 30, 2014
Year of Dates - January
Turns out, it was a lot harder than I thought. I didn't have the money to pre-pay for these dates, as is suggested (I still don't). Instead, I wrapped up 12 mostly empty manila envelopes with each month written across the top. I had a few ideas in the first three, but nothing after March. As a result, we didn't follow through and our dates became hit or miss.
Having two small children and a husband who travels for work has made going out on a date very difficult. So, I decided to give this idea another try. I came across another blog that had the same concept, and I'm really bummed I can't find it again because there were some really good ideas! So instead, I'll just share what I came up with! And yes, I managed to channel my creative juices and come up with a variety date ideas for each month.
We had planned to go see the last Hobbit movie the weekend of our anniversary, but Hubby was sick with the flu. So, we decided to fulfill January's envelope and a bit early on December 29th since that is when we found childcare.
We went all out and went to Cinebistro, a luxurious (overpriced) movie theater that serves you food and alcohol to enjoy during the movie. The movie did not live up to Hubby's hopes or expectations and the food was only so-so, but it was lovely to return to MiddleEarth #OneLastTime!
Monday, December 29, 2014
New clothes
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| Size small, in Butter Cream, please! |
Sunday, December 28, 2014
The Challenge
Starting January 1, 2015, I am committing to #100DaysOfMiles. According to their Facebook event, there are 4 simple rules:
#1 NEVER GO 3 DAYS WITHOUT RUNNING
#2 RUN AT LEAST 3 DAYS A WEEK
#3 NEVER MISS A MONDAY
#4 NEVER GIVE UP!
Thursday, December 11, 2014
Training plans
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
The Great Marathon Waffle
Tuesday, December 9, 2014
Turkey trotting
Since we will be moving away from my beloved RVA (and because I couldn't justify spending $35 for a 5k), I decided to run the Richmond Turkey Trot 10k at the University of Richmond. My little sister wanted to run a turkey trot with me this year, so I signed her up to run her first 10k!
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| Post-race selfie in the car! |
Tuesday, November 25, 2014
Road trip - North Carolina
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| Both boys chillin' while I get our breakfast ready |
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| Little Man was super excited to watch the Lego Movie during breakfast. |
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| Twins, anyone? |
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| The two youngest, only 6 weeks apart |
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| Baby Thunder and Baby Mericle |
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Monday, November 17, 2014
Bittersweet
I became a stay at home mom today.
While I am so grateful that Hubby had a job that provides for us financially so that I don't have to work, I am going to miss my job. My patients, my team, my boss - everyone was so kind and welcoming from Day One! I am happy to be able to stay home and enjoy these little years with my boys, but I am also sad to be leaving such wonderful people. I will forever treasure the lessons I learned.
So here's to more New Adventures!
Saturday, November 15, 2014
RVA Race review
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| Hubby captured this picture on the downhill finish |
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| The best part of the whole race - knowing this was waiting for me at the finish! |
Thursday, October 30, 2014
The lack of Halloween
People have been asking me what Little Man is going to be for Halloween this year. I've been getting very strange looks when I say, "Himself"! Let me explain...
I have a lot going in right now. Probably too much!
1. Hubby started this new job, which means he is gone Monday thru Thursday or Friday.
2. Which means I hold down the fort with a Terrible Two year old who no longer naps, and 8 week old who has decided he doesn't want to lie down to sleep this week. He only wants to sleep on Mommy, which means Mommy doesn't sleep, which doesn't work for anyone.
3. I signed up for the Richmond Half Marathon... in 3 weeks! So I'm running... but, that would be happening anyways, since that is my main coping mechanism.
4. I am taking my second - to - last college class for my BSN. Maybe not my smartest choice..
5. I'm starting to get a little desperate trying to find childcare so I get to go back to work. If I don't find anything, then I will take it as a sign that my working days are at an end, for now. But I really like my job, and I would really like my 2 mornings a week to be with adults! :-)
So no, a costume for my 2 year old is not even closer to my radar! And thank goodness he is young enough that it doesn't matter.
Next year may be a different story...




















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